From My Perspective - - -
One of the most frustrating
situations to be in is when and where language is being used and one has no
idea what is being said. It has to be a very lonely and confusing moment. Years
ago, I had the privilege of being invited to play an instrument with a “Gospel
Team.” We would go to jails and rescue missions – occasionally, a church. There
was a sharp contrast when we went to two different islands in New York Harbor .
One was Governor’s Island that served as a
Military Stockade. It was a very beautifully kept place – but – it was a jail
nevertheless. The other was Ellis Island that
served as the entry point for Immigrants entering into this country for the
first time. The setting was not all that lovely – basically, a large terminal
type facility. We would go and play our instruments, give a testimony and
someone would give a “message”. The problem with the “message” was not the
content – but – the inability of most in the terminal to understand what was being
communicated. The only indication of understanding is when we would play the
old Hymns of the church. At that moment, the universal language of music was
able to convey a message.
We recently had a guest in
our home from Ukraine .
It was a teenage girl who was part of a group brought to this country to see
if there were American families who might become foster parents for a teenage orphan. Our son had provided a home setting for this child for six weeks to
determine whether it would be workable to be (a) foster parents for her, or (b)
to adopt her as a teenage daughter. . I watched this child and wondered about
what she could understand and what she was thinking/feeling. Some might say
that another universal language is “love” – but – what if this person has never
been in a place or context where “love” was displayed and experienced? What if
this person has no living and working definition of what “love” actually is?
Technology allows for some communication. One can use an I-pad and type in a
sentence and easily find a way to have it translated into another language.
When this girl smiled, which was seldom, she was so pretty – but – most of the
time, it was a blank stare and an inability to understand what was going on
around her. One can only empathize with the lonely, empty and frustrating
feelings such a one is knowing.
The six week stay in this
country ended yesterday and she will return to Ukraine sometime today. One of the
sad exchanges was in regard to this understanding of “love”. Before she was to
leave, our son and his wife asked if she felt “loved” – and – her answer was –
“No!” It may be due to the fact that she has been an orphan all of her life and
has never lived in a foster situation where “love” was defined by word and
deed. It causes me to wonder about two key areas: (1) How clear and effective
can a verse of Scripture – John 3:16 – “For God so loved the world, that He
gave His only-begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him, should not perish
but have everlasting life.” – be in the life of an orphan who is fifteen and
been unwanted all of her life? - and (2) What kind of sense and commitment does
the “Christian” and “Church” have in terms of personal involvement with
orphans? Is it anywhere close to James
1:22, 27 – “Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive
yourselves. Do what it says…Religion that God our Father accepts
as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and
to keep oneself from being polluted by the world”?
Our Grand-daughter is married
to an Attorney – Sam McLure - who has committed himself and his law practice to
be: The Adoption Law Firm in Montgomery ,
AL . He can provide you with the
information and cost schedule that will enable one to be an adoptive or foster
parent. James 2:16-17 asks and
declares: “If one
of you says to him, Go, I wish you well; keep warm and well fed, but does
nothing about his physical needs, what good is it? In the same way, faith
by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead.” The Message paraphrases
verse 17: “Isn't it obvious that God-talk without God-acts is outrageous
nonsense?” What think ye? What say ye?
Consider these things with me!
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